Sunday, January 25, 2009

Summit Video

Did you blog the summit?

I just read George's liveblog of the summit:
and I thought it was a great recap...

Who else was blogging there?  Give us your links!

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Friday, January 23, 2009

Parking Info in Downtown LA

All day parking at the LA Convention Center West Hall (enter on Cherry St) is $12. There are other nearby options, however:

Summit Final Agenda

7:45 AM Registration opens
Coffee, Pastries & Networking in Room 502

8:00 AM Shabbat services with Rabbi Denise Eger, Congregation Kol Ami – Room 514

9:00 AM PLENARY - Looking Backward and Moving Forward – Room 502
Invocation by Rabbi Denise Eger and Reverend Jonipher Kwong
Welcome by State Assemblymember John A. Perez
Election ’08 Summary with:
Staff and Executive Committee of Let California Ring (Geoff Kors & Vaishalee Raja)
Staff and Executive Committee of, and Experts on, NO on 8 campaign and (Chad Griffin, Yvette Martinez, Sarah Reece, Lorri Jean, Kate Kendall, Geoff Kors, Delores Jacobs, Marty Rouse, Chris Maliwat, and Julie Davis)
Staff from Marriage Equality USA (Pamela Brown, Policy Director and Molly McKay, Media Director)
Proposition 8 Post-Election California Voter Survey, presented by David Binder, David Binder Research
Question & Answer Period, Moderated by Karen Ocamb, News Editor, IN Los Angeles Magazine
Introductory Remarks by Assemblymember Tom Ammiano
Keynote Speech by Eva Paterson, Equal Justice Society

11:20 AM break

11:30 AM BREAKOUT - networking & strategy sessions by interest/constituency
Group, Facilitator, Room
African American, Darnell Grisby, 504
Asian & Pacific Islander, Tawal Panyacosit & Doreena Wong, 506
Earned and Paid Media, Jo Hoenninger, 507
Faith Communities , Joel Kushner, 510
Families, Judy Appel & Meredith Fenton , 508A
Government/Elected officials/Legislative advocates, Alice Kessler, 512
Grassroots Community Organizing, Fernando Lopez, 502A
Labor, T Santora & Conrado Terrazas, 513
Latino, Coral Lopez, 505
Legal, Loren Javier, 514
Netroots/Web 2.0, Naomi Fine, 502B
Transgender, Al Miller, 516
Youth, Anthony Dietrich, 508C

12:30 PM Lunch Break (Food courts open and available)

12:50 PM David Binder Lunchtime Q&A Session (Optional) – Room 507

1:30 PM PLENARY - Race, Religion & the LGBT Movement – Room 502
Opening Comments by Senator Mark Leno
Introduction of Goals and Key Issues by Jan Adams, Bob Wing, Andrea Shorter, Ron Buckmire, & Catherine Thienmann
Presentation and Q&A Prop 8 polling data analysis released by the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute, by Patrick J. Egan, Ph.D., of New York University, and Kenneth Sherrill, Ph.D., of Hunter College, CUNY
Small group discussion and report back facilitated by Jan Adams and Bob Wing
Closing Comments by Senator Christine Kehoe

3:00 PM break

3:10 PM BREAKOUT - networking & strategy sessions by region
Group, Facilitator, Room
Central Valley/Central Coast/Nor Cal/Sacramento, Lisa Cisneros, 510
Los Angeles Area, Daniel Gould, 502
National, Sarah Reece, 505
Orange County/Long Beach/Inland Empire, Laura Kanter, 508A
San Diego Area, Denise Serrano & Jose Letayf, 512
San Francisco Bay Area, Julie Davis, 504
Statewide, Shayna Gelender, 507

4:10 PM break

4:20 PM LARGE BREAKOUT – Next Steps – Room 502
Panel moderated by Assemblymember Mike Feuer
Legal Update by Kate Kendall, National Center for Lesbian Rights, Jenny Pizer, Lambda Legal, & Elizabeth Gill, ACLU of Northern California
Organizing lessons from the Obama campaign by Mary Jane Stevenson, California Field Director, Obama/Biden
How to Qualify a Ballot Initiative by John Henning, Love Honor Cherish
Ballot initiative Strategy Issues by Chad Griffin, Griffin Schake, Geoff Kors, Equality California, & Robin Tyler, The Equality Campaign

4:20 PM BREAKOUT – Various Rooms (simultaneous with large breakout above)
Rooms available for breakout sessions led by summit attendees

5:20 PM break, snacks

5:30 PM Open Space Strategy Groups – Meet in Room 502 to begin
Sessions proposed and led by summit attendees

6:45 PM PLENARY - What's Next?
Report back from breakout groups, facilitated by Lawrence Ellis
Closing Remarks from Equality Summit Planning Committee Co-Chairs
Closing Call to Action by Senator Gloria Romero

Los Angeles Marriage Equality Summit TOMORROW

***Crossposted from The California Ripple Effect***

I can’t wait. The summit this weekend should prove to be an excellent opportunity for current and emerging leaders in the movement to come together and talk shop. With such a diverse and dedicated group, we should be able to come up with some great ideas, and all get behind the best ones.

I’m especially excited that it’s here in my hometown, Los Angeles. Frankly, I think there’s a lot of work to be done here, so I’m glad our gargantuan and unwieldy city is getting some deserved attention at such an early stage.

For all the deets, just go to
Registration is closed, but the roughly fifty organizations on the planning committee are dedicated to making the summit transparent and accessible to the entire community, whether they can attend in person, or not. For the latest conference agenda, videos and up-to-date info from summit organizers, check out the Official Equality Summit Blog.

Yours truly will be liveblogging the summit and posting videos as well. This way members of the netroots community who are unable to attend in the flesh will be able follow and comment on the proceedings. Press is also invited.

For me, a highlight will be the presentation on the Prop 8 post-election California voter survey, presented by Obama consultant David Binder.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Asian American Voting on Prop 8 Was Significantly Influenced by Age, English Proficiency and Religiosity

The Asian Pacific American Legal Center (APALC), API Equality-LA, API Equality, and California Faith for Equality (CAFFE) released a study today on Asian American voting trends on Prop 8. 

The survey shows that age and religiosity are determining factors, a trend similar to other racial and ethnic groups. Here are the main results:

'Overall, Asian Americans narrowly supported Prop 8 - 54% Yes to 46% No.' The more useful information, however, is the analysis by age, English proficiency, religiosity. 

'Asian Americans between the ages of 18 to 34 voted significantly against Prop 8 (69% to 31%), with some Asian ethnic groups showing more than three-fourths of its young voters opposing Prop 8.'

'Asian Americans who were fluent in English clearly opposed Prop 8 (58% opposed) whereas few of those who were limited English speaking opposed Prop 8 (25% opposed).'

'Asian American voters regardless of ethnic group were overwhelmingly more likely to oppose Prop 8 if they "never" attended a church, temple, or mosque (71%) than if they "never" attended (25%). For those that "sometimes" attended, a majority (55%) opposed Prop 8.'

The full study is available at

Matt Foreman's Take On Prop 8: "No, we didn't blow it"

Matt Foreman, former executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force for an exhausting 5 years has written an incisive article (from the perspective of someone who is very interested in the LGBT movement for equality but who was absolutely uninvolved in the No On Prop 8 campaign).

It is quite compelling reading:

California's Proposition 8--Ours to Lose? Nope. It was always an Uphill Climb.

A lot of people have been saying that Prop 8 was our side's to lose and
that missteps by the No on 8 Campaign snatched defeat from the jaws of
victory. Those analyses ignore hard core obstacles and fundamentals
underlying the contest, including how hard it is to hold and move opinions
on marriage in the narrow confines of a campaign.

I need to start by saying that I had nothing to do with the No on 8 Campaign. Because the Evelyn & Walter Haas, Jr. Fund, where I work, has been so deeply involved in public education work in support of marriage equality, the law literally precluded any contact or coordination with the electoral campaign. So, as a purely armchair quarterback it's pretty easy for me to catalogue things I -- in my infinite wisdom -- would have done differently. But I also know that even if everything -- every single thing -- had gone our way, it still would have been incredibly hard to win by anything more than a tiny margin. Here's why.

Putting Minority Rights Up to a Popular Vote: the Difficulty of Winning

First off, it's nearly impossible for minorities to win or defend their
rights at the ballot box. Californians have demonstrated that time and
again, voting to outlaw affirmative action, to deny grade school education
and non-emergency medical care to undocumented children, and to
specifically permit race discrimination in housing. This profound
disadvantage was exacerbated by the fact that marriage is in a class by
itself as an issue. Everyone has an intimate, personal relationship with
marriage and has an opinion -- usually visceral -- about it. True, over
time people are moving toward marriage -- we've quite amazingly gained
about one point per year since 2000. But within the narrow time
constraints of a campaign -- under 90 days -- it is pure fancy to think
there's a "movable middle" on marriage. At best there was movable sliver.
More on that in a bit.

Our Opponents' Base -- Huge, Solid, Energized

Second, the other side had a huge, largely unmovable, energized base. We
didn't. No surprise but they had older people all sewn up. While we won
among all voters under 65, more than two-thirds (67%) of voters 65 or
older voted for Prop 8. That alone -- yes, alone -- was enough to override
our majority support among all younger age groups. Anyone who thinks a
90-day campaign -- even a flawless one -- is going to overcome the imprint
of homophobia on those born before World War II needs to think again.

In addition to older people, the other side also had a stranglehold on
regular churchgoers. More than two-thirds (70%) of people who worship at
least once a week voted for Prop 8 and they make up nearly half (45%) of
the electorate. Yes, our side got an equally large proportion of people
who hardly ever attend church (70%), but they comprise only 29% of the
vote. Anyone who thinks it is easy to overcome homophobia that's
reinforced on a weekly basis from a person's own house of worship doesn't
appreciate the role of religion in so many people's lives or its pervasive
use as a rationale for voting for Prop 8: an astonishing 94% of "Yes"
voters said "religion" or the "Bible" was most influential in deciding how
to vote.

What does combining older voters, frequent churchgoers and Republicans
(81% of who voted for Prop 8) yield? A rock solid, close to 50% of the
vote, that's what. How solid? Nearly three-quarters (73%) of those who
voted for Prop 8 said nothing -- that's right, nothing -- would have
changed their mind. And almost all of the rest of them couldn't really
name anything real that would have changed their minds. For example, the
most common answer offered by these folks was "calling same sex marriage
by another name" -- an option not on the ballot.

Does this mean we can't ever move older voters, Republicans and frequent
churchgoers? Of course not. My parents -- both 76, conservative
Republicans and devout Catholics -- are prime examples. While they could
not be more pro-marriage now, I know in my heart that it's only because my
partner (now spouse) and I have been a part of their lives for years -- we
could never have moved them in the 90 days the Prop 8 campaign essentially

Support on Our Side -- Smaller and Squishy

Our side? Not so big and not so solid. At best, we LGBT people make up 6%
of the vote and unlike the fervor from our opponents' much larger base we
weren't united on marriage equality. (Two polls said 5% of the LGBT
community -- or 1% of the total vote -- actually voted "Yes.") I'm still
hearing the refrain "I don't know why we're fighting for marriage -- I
don't believe in it" or "It's not my issue." I think this is because for
years we've mainly presented marriage as a package of rights -- like a
better dental plan -- than what it's really about, recognition of equal
humanity. Whatever the reasons -- they were united and energized; we

But more important, unlike our opponents, our base beyond LGBT people is
squishy on its leading edge. Going into the Prop 8 contest, only a slim
majority of Californians (54%) even believed that our relationships are
moral. (This figure also was our high point in the superficial public
pre-election polls to which so much significance was attached.) This slim
majority is all our side had to work with. After all, no one who thinks
we're immoral is going to vote to protect our access to the ultimate
societal institution used to judge and control sex, procreation and
"family values." At the same time, it's hardly a given that people who do
not see us as immoral are automatically for marriage equality.

The Ick Factor

In fact, many of those people are still deeply uncomfortable with
homosexuality. This "ick" is and always has been our Achilles heel,
something our opponents skillfully exploit time and again. Lots of folks I
respect have been saying if only the No on 8 Campaign had put up or hit
back with forceful, to-the-heart ads featuring gay and lesbian families --
instead of those soft ones with parents or surrogates like Sen. Diane
Feinstein -- we would have won. I desperately want to agree, but can't.

The sad reality is that our movables get all wobbly -- they blanch, they
stammer, they get visibly uncomfortable -- when faced with the reality of
our couples, our families, our children. I've personally seen it dozens
of times in focus groups, in one-on-one interviews, and in my own life and
my friends' lives. Ads, for example, that make you and me cheer don't work
with them at all, they backfire.

What's this about? The short answer is that the ick factor is alive and
festering even among people who want to suppress it. These are people who
truly want to be fair and who don't want to hurt other people. At the same
time, they remain deeply uncomfortable with homosexuality and marriage
goes right to the heart of their discomfort, given that sex is central to

Ads that Move Us Don't Move those We Need to Move

In 2004, when I was at the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, we -- like
so many people now -- were sick of our side resorting to intellectualized
arguments like "Don't write discrimination into the constitution" when the
other side was going for arguments that hit the heart and emotions. We
were frustrated that our side's campaigns almost never put up ads showing
our families speaking in emotion-based arguments in support of marriage.

With no small amount of self-righteousness, we taped a dozen ads featuring gay and lesbian couples speaking from the heart, many with heart-wrenching stories. LGBT loved them. But when we showed them to voters who were opposed to anti-gay discrimination but weren't there on marriage (that is, the movables) all we were able to get from a few people was a hint of empathy, but absolutely no movement on marriage. It was stunning -- incredibly hard to witness. Our elaborately planned campaign had to be scrapped -- we couldn't justify spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on something that made us feel good but didn't move anyone else.

Closer to home, nearly three years ago the Haas, Jr. Fund, Gill
Foundation, the David Bohnett Foundation, Ambassador Jim Hormel and others
invested nearly $500,000 to understand what would move Californians to
support marriage equality and how to address the deeply conflicting views
the mushy middle holds about LGBT equality. Once again, ads featuring gay
people -- individuals or couples or families -- just did not work. What
did work were messages that pushed people to think about the issue in a
new way, namely, asking them how would they feel if they were in our
shoes. But again, gay and lesbian people didn't work as the messengers.

That's where the "Garden Wedding" ad came from -- the message being
delivered silently by a bride facing numerous obstacles trying to get down
the aisle that ended with the tagline "What if you couldn't marry the
person you love?". Did I like the ad? Absolutely not.

Did it work? Absolutely. Let California Ring conducted rigorous testing
in the Santa Barbara media market last year. A baseline poll found that
only 36% of people there supported marriage equality, 8-10 points below
the state average. That was followed by a substantial buy for the Garden
Wedding ad, coupled with field organizing. A follow-up poll showed that
support for marriage equality grew significantly, including a 16% jump
among younger voters (as opposed to zero growth in markets where the
campaign did not run). More tellingly, on Election Day, Santa Barbara
defeated Prop 8 by 10 points (compared to it passing Prop 22 by 14 points
in 2000). Santa Barbara was the only county in Southern California to vote
No on 8 and the only thing that was different was the Garden Wedding

Why did it work? Instead of asking viewers to accept a gay couple -- which
was simply too much too much for many people -- the ad provided them a way
to be empathetic that was more comfortable to them. This made the issue
about who they are -- fair minded, not bigoted -- rather than about
whether they approve of gay relationships. Sadly, our side was unable to
raise the millions required to take the ad statewide in the years and
months before Prop 8 qualified for the ballot. Part of this failing was
the simple reality that it's very hard to raise money in the absence of a
campaign and crisis; the other main reason was that gay donors didn't
understand the power and appeal of the ad and didn't step up to fund it.

Where Gay and Lesbian People Don't Make Good Messengers and Where They Do

Here's another painful reality all this research again showed: using gay
and lesbian people as messengers not only failed to move people in our
direction, it actually hurt us -- driving movables against marriage
equality. Over and over the same result: showing them ads with gay and
lesbian individuals or couples pushed people the wrong way. And ads that
included children with their gay or lesbian parents did even worse. That's
why the "Yes on 8" campaign so prominently featured children in its ads.

Think about friends who tell you their relatives are OK with them being gay or lesbian so long as they don't talk about it. Why do so many of us find it so incredibly hard to bring up gay issues with co-workers or when we visit our families over the holidays? Or when we do, what about the painful silence or uncomfortable glances that so often follow? Think your Aunt Jane -- who's only recently started to be nice to your partner -- is going to see a television ad and suddenly think, "Darn, I've been wrong all along about this gay marriage thing!"? Think again.

I am not saying we shouldn't be putting our lives, stories and faces front
and center over and over again or that we can't move people solidly to our
side. Most of us have seen how taking our lives up close and personal to
people around us does, in fact, create change. Moreover, having these
direct, real conversations is the only way we're ever going to squelch the
ick and inoculate voters from attacks that exploit it.

What I am saying is that we can't leave this hard work until the last
minute -- which is what a campaign really is. We can't expect some
brilliantly crafted ads -- coming from our collective heart -- to be the
silver bullets that kill anti-marriage ballot initiatives in the heat of a
campaign, when there is no time and the other side is assaulting our
movables with carefully crafted messages designed to exploit every
anti-gay fear and myth. Instead, we need to move people beyond short-term
political campaigns and before they get underway.

Moving Forward

Yes, I do think we could have won -- by a fraction of a point -- if
everything had gone our way. But everything didn't go our way, including
mistakes our side undoubtedly made and things beyond our control like the
Mormon President/Prophet's ordering his faithful to fuel the "Yes"
campaign. That gave our opponents a two-to-one money advantage 60 days
out, something few campaigns of any sort, anywhere, are able to overcome.

As numbing, insulting and painful as our loss was, let's take real pride
in the fact that we moved the needle nine points on marriage -- yes,
marriage -- in less than eight years. Of course we must face up to and
learn from our missteps. But rather than getting caught up in endless
recriminations of our recent loss, let's focus on the long term work
ahead -- how to build our social movement to win complete equality in
California and across the nation.

From a big picture view that means ramping up education and organizing
within churches, among younger voters, and in people of color and rural
communities. But more important it is what each of us can and must do
everyday: having those hard, from the heart talks with our friends,
neighbors, relatives and co-workers. Time is once again on our side, let's
make the most of it.


Matt Foreman is a program director at the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr.
Fund. He is the former executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian
Task Force and the Empire State Pride Agenda.

The Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund is a private family foundation
established by Evelyn D. Haas and Walter A. Haas, Jr. that has awarded
more than $330 million in grants since its founding in 1953. The Fund is
located in San Francisco, California. The Fund strives to contribute in
meaningful and effective ways at the local, state and national levels to
create a just and caring society where all people are able to live, work
and raise their families with dignity. To learn more about the Haas, Jr.
Fund, visit their website at
What do you think?

B.A.R. Publishes Article Calling Summit Organizers "Stingy"

An article written by Seth Hemmelgarn entitled Summit planners stingy with No on Prop 8 dollars was published by the Bay Area Reporter.

Interestingly, I was one of the members of the planning committtee who responded and talked with the reporter, but I guess since the official records show that I donated $370 directly through NO ON 8 (not counting another $500 given by attending The Task Force's Los Angeles Leadership Awards over $1000 raised by readers of my blog, The Mad Professah Lectures and at least $1000 by people who attended my August 8, 2008 wedding and donated to Equality California) those facts didn't fit into Seth Hemmelgarm's "story."

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Interested in a Ballot Initiative?

From Jo Hoenninger, MEUSA:
Here is the link to an explanation of initiative process and how to qualify
and initiative. This webpage contains another link that takes you to an
html pamphlet on the process.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Agenda For The Summit

7:45 a.m. Registration begins. Coffee, Pastries & Networking in Main Room
8 a.m. Shabbat services available with Rabbi Denise L. Eger
9 a.m. OPENING PLENARY SESSION - Looking Backward and Moving Forward
Welcome by State Assemblymember John A. Perez
Presentations from NO on 8 and Let California Ring Staff and Marriage Equality USA
Proposition 8 Post-Election California Voter Survey, presented by David Binder, Consultant to Obama/Biden Campaign
Question & Answer session
Keynote Speech by Eva Paterson, Equal Justice Society
11:20 a.m. Break
11:30 a.m. BREAKOUT SESSIONS for networking & strategy by interest/constituency:
African American; Asian & Pacific Islander; Faith Communities; Families;
Government/elected officials/legislative advocates;
Grassroots Community Organizers; Labor Unions; Latino; Legal;
Media (Earned and Paid); Netroots/Web 2.0; Transgender; and Youth
12:30 p.m. Lunch break (food court open and available)
1:30 p.m. PLENARY SESSION - Race, Religion & the LGBT Movement
Presentation and Q&A Prop 8 polling data analysis released by
the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute,
by Patrick J.Egan, Ph.D., of New York University, and Kenneth Sherrill, Ph.D., of Hunter College, CUNY
Discussion facilitated by Jan Adams and Bob Wing
3 p.m. Break
3:10 p.m. BREAKOUT SESSIONS for networking & strategy by region:
Central Valley/Central Coast/Nor Cal Rural areas; Inland Empire/Coachella Valley;
Los Angeles County; Orange County/Long Beach; Sacramento Area; San Diego area;
San Francisco Bay Area; and Statewide & National
4:10 p.m. Break
4:20 p.m. PLENARY SESSION - What’s Next?
Panel update on legal and electoral issues
Open Source development of strategy ideas from attendees
5:20 p.m. Break, snacks
5:30 p.m. BREAKOUT SESSIONS for next step strategy planning
Sessions proposed and led by summit attendees.
6:30 p.m Break, snacks
6:40 p.m. CLOSING PLENARY SESSION - What's Next?
Report back from breakout groups, facilitated by Lawrence Ellis
7:30 p.m. Closing

It's just 8 days away...

The Equality Summit is a gathering of community leaders committed to winning back marriage equality in California to network, share information and resources, and plan next steps taking place Saturday, January 24th at the Los Angeles Convention center. For more information about registration, visit

Are you headed to the summit? What are you looking forward to?